Treat Yo Mama: Mother’s Day Gift Guide 2015

Mother’s Day is getting closer and you best be treating yo mama right on this day! Here’s my guide to things I want you should get for your mother (or any other mama in your life) from cheap-and-easy to maybe-save-up-for-that:

Mother's Day Gift Guide 2015

Frends headphones  // RIFLE PAPER CO notepad // Anthropologie candle // Piperlime flats // Kendra Scott earrings // Kate Spade bag // Asos lip clutch //  Leif gemstone magnets

So, what’re you getting yo mama? Or what would the ultimate mother’s day gift for you be? I love presents (see everything above), but for me I think it would be an experience. A fun relaxed activity with the kids during the day that I have nothing to do with planning and then an awesome date night, which again I have to make no decisions for. Also maybe a prezzie. And a cookie. I really love cookies.

XO,

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P.S. Need help planning a Mother’s Day party? Check this post.

P.P.S. To all the fellas whose ladies sent them this link, don’t be intimidated, she just wants to know she is thought of and appreciated. There is no shame in asking her sister or friends what she wants. You’re awesome for reading this far.

Romantic Confetti Photoshoot

A gorgeous, dreamy, romantic confetti photoshoot featuring the original Confetti Girl, Jessica Huizenga of The Confetti Bar.

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Photography: Victoria Gloria Photography (@victoriagloria)
Confetti: The Confetti Bar (@theconfettibar)
Hair & Makeup: Melanie (@melaniedc83) & Stephanie (@sloulakis) of LLMUA (@llmua)
Styling: Oh My Gemini (@ohmygemini)
Vintage Nightgowns: Vintanthromodern Vintage (@vintanthromodern)
Dresses: The Dressing Room (@thedressingroomct)
Lingerie: Lady Olga’s Lingerie
Flowers: Wallingford Flower Shop
Video (coming soon!): Mojalvo (@mojalvo)
“Confetti Girl” Banner: The Bannerie (@thebannerie)
Are you a confetti girl? You should be.
XO,
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Treat Yo Mama: Mother’s Day Party Inspiration

Last year I blogged about Mother’s Day brunch inspiration and the brunch I threw for the mamas in my life. This year I’m keeping I’m not throwing a party, but if I were this is all I would need:

Treat Yo Mama this mother's Day with this Mother's Day Guide

1. A Glitter letter banner from I don’t know, say…. The Bannerie
2. DIY mini flower bouquets from one of my fave blog ladies Homey Oh My!
3. Up the fun factor with sangria like this one from Kiran Turan
4. A pink ombre cake like this one from Style Me Pretty
5. A gorgeous fringe tassel garland from Studio Mucci that can be reused in any room
6. And in case someone’s not satisfied with ombre cake (weirdo) this spaghetti squash pizza crust from A Beautiful Mess looks so good, like it’s not too heavy but still filling

What’s a must for you on Mother’s Day? Any great traditions? I love the men in my life, but I also really love getting this special time to celebrate the women, mothers or not.

XO,

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How to Be a Boss in Business

There are soooo many things I wish I knew when I started The Bannerie a year ago. I’ve narrowed it down to the ten most important lessons from the past year and what I would tell anyone looking to start their own business.

These are the do’s and don’t’s of How to be a Boss in Business:

DON'T SAY NO TO YOURSELF_THE BANNERIE1- Don’t say no to yourself.

My brother said this to me early on and it really stuck. Often we stop ourselves from doing things or trying things out of fear that someone else will say no. Let them say no! Don’t say no to yourself before someone else can. That’s just silly. Start paying attention to what stops you, is it you? Are you grinning right now because that’s totally you? I get it, let’s move forward and say yes please like Amy Poehler because look where she is.

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2. Find your voice.

If you can find your authentic voice, all the branding will be so much easier. Set guidelines for yourself and stick to it. For instance, I know that I always want to stay cheeky, empowering, and to a degree, girly. I do it with my packaging, I do it with my Instagram copy, I do it in my daily life. It’s easy for me because it’s how I am.

Here is what I’m going to suggest to you: think about your favorite people. The ones that you are the most comfortable with in the whole world. No one’s listening in your thoughts so no pressure, it can be anyone. Who are you when you are with those people? When you relax and aren’t trying to be anybody, what are you like? That’s you.

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3. Say no.

It can be hard, it can be so so hard to say no. Saying yes can mean money and making customers happy but you have to learn to set boundaries for yourself or you will burn out and probably burn bridges along the way because you’ll be so cranky from never saying no. Repeat after me: You will never be what everyone wants you to be. I’m a people pleaser by nature (middle child and all) so I totally get the impulse but it isn’t a good way to live your life and it’s definitely not a good way to run your business.

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4. Say yes.

I know I just said say no, but say yes! You won’t know how to do things. Things will be scary. You will make mistakes. People won’t always be supportive. But say yes and create opportunities for yourself. Don’t wait for someone to come to you, go to them and give them the chance to give YOU a chance. Say yes to new things and you will learn that are capable of so much more than you ever thought. Ask my husband or sister what would make me melt in a pile of shame in the beginning of this year and they’ll tell you: photos! Hours and hours and hours and so much work and sweat and tears and yeah, the occasional drop of blood and now do I still have so much self-doubt? YES! But, that is one of the TOP things I get complimented on all the time! So… give it time, try things, and say yes.

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5. Keep on keeping on.

Push through. It’s gonna be alright. You got this. (See above for how many times I mentioned hours and multiply that by a bajillion)

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6. Give up.

If something isn’t working, try another way to do it. Don’t keep doing the same thing and expect different results (I think that’s the definition of insanity…)

LEARN EVERYTHING-THE BANNERIE7. Learn everything.

The more you know how to do, the less you are limited! Learn photography, learn styling, learn branding, learn copywriting. You don’t have to be an expert on everything and outsourcing what you aren’t good at is a great strategy, but try to have a basic understanding so even if you are turning it over to someone else, you know if they are doing a good job or not. Plus before you hand something over yo have to understand the basic process.

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8. Don’t over research.

Don’t get so stuck in the planning stage that you never move forward. That’s called fear, my friends. Put something out into the world before it’s perfect and then refine it. That’s right, it doesn’t have to be perfect! Did you just faint?

SURROUND YOURSELF WITH GOOD PEOPLE- THE BANNERIE
9. Surround yourself with good people.

Seriously. Do yourself a huge favor and make a community for yourself of good people. People who hear your dreams and cheer you on even if they don’t get them. You don’t have time for people who bring you down.

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10. Let go of the negativity.

Some people won’t get what you do, they’ll call it “cute” and say things like “since you’re free…”. Some people will copy you, some customers will be rude. That’s okay. The sooner you can learn to let that roll off your back, the better. I will, this one time refer to the Godfather, just kidding, I’ll refer to You’ve Got Mail referring to the Godfather, “it’s not personal, it’s business”

You Got This_THE BANNERIEListen, my darlings, it’s hard. I know because I am all of one year into my own business. But in that one year I have learned enough that I am fielding a lot of e-mails and messages about how to run a business. So what does that tell you? I’ll let you know just in case your head is still reeling from the “it doesn’t have to be perfect” bit, it tells you that you can do it. It tells you that it is achievable and that you are capable and that what looks like mountains now will be molehills in a few months.

GIRLBOSS Magnet Board from Lindie & CoI’m gonna help you set that office of yours up with a big beautiful custom GIRLBOSS magnet board from Lindie & Co. It’s huge and sturdy enough to hold your dreams (and appointments or vision board or whatever you want to use it for, I’m not gonna tell you how to run your business!) And did I mention it was one of Oprah’s favorite things?

Enter by leaving a comment below telling me about your dream business, whether you own one already or want to in the future. You can also ask a business question and I’ll do my best to answer! (There were some pretty great ones on the APW interview!)
Extra entries on Instagram! The giveaway will be open for one week and is for U.S. residents only.

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XO,

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Awesome Things from Last Week

You may have read that I keep an “awesome folder” where I keep screenshots of everything wonderful that happens with the blog and business and I thought I’d share some from this week:

The Bannerie was a part of Studio DIY’s first ever Can’t Crop This Class swag bags! We sent over banners that said “LIKE A BOSS” and “YOU GOT THIS”

Studio DIY Can't Crop This Class Swag Bag

You guys know I’m always a sucker for a good nursery roundup, well check out this one from Redhead Baby Mama! She’s hosting a Wayfair Housewarming Party and sharing all sorts of kid’s bedroom decorating ideas and inspiration and included Aiden and Mia’s shared room!

Incredibly excitingly, I was interviewed by Maddie Eisenhart of A Practical Wedding about networking and saying no and being a young business.

Boss Babe metallic tattoo

We had our first post from our latest blog contributor Emily McAllister on DIY Painted Pots for Spring and it had a great response, thanks so much for the love!

And the completely fabu site Brit + Co included my DIY glitter cake toppers in this fun roundup (which I’ll be needing in a little over a year)!

I’ll be talking more about what this year has taught me about being a “boss” and will be having a small but boss giveaway (yes, another one!) starting this Wednesday.

What awesome things happened to you last week?

XO,

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DIY Painted Pots for Spring

*Today’s post is from our newest contributor and my late night text buddy, Emily McAllister the funny, talented woman behind the blog Chasing Ayden and store Ayden’s Rose.*

Love is in the air, and so is Spring time! When I think of Spring I think of flowers, bright colors, warm weather, the smell of fresh-cut grass, sunshine days and all-around cheeriness. Did you just have a moment? Me too.

Painted Pot DIY for Spring

These DIY flower pots are the perfect way to welcome Spring, and they’re not only fun and easy, but super cost-effective (my favorite). If you have little ones, buy a few extra pots so they can play too.

What you will need:
-Clay flower pots in varying sizes, (I found mine at Lowes, but check your local dollar store)
-Paints (I used Martha Stewart craft paint)
-Gold leaf paint
-Potting soil
-Succulents
-Washi tape (optional)

Painted Pots DIY. Perfect burst of color for Spring. http://chasingayden.com/painted-pot-DIY

1. Paint  yo’ pots
Having an extra pot for my daughter Ayden to paint, proved to be a genius move. She loved crafting with me, and I was able to paint my own pots without her trying to ‘help’.

Painted Pots DIY. Perfect burst of color for Spring. http://chasingayden.com/painted-pot-DIY

Painted Pots DIY. Perfect burst of color for Spring. http://chasingayden.com/painted-pot-DIY

OR dip yo’ pots

I have been wanting to try this method for a while, and I love the water-color look that it produced. Fill a container with watered down paint of choice and dip pot in sections, starting from the bottom up. It will create a light-to-dark ombre effect.

Painted Pots DIY. Perfect burst of color for Spring. http://chasingayden.com/painted-pot-DIY

Painted Pots DIY. Perfect burst of color for Spring. http://chasingayden.com/painted-pot-DIY

2. Fill ‘em up

I have a secret. I found these succulents growing in my neighborhood. There is an abundance of them in Southern California, and thy grow back fast and easily. They also take to soil easily. I say no harm, no foul. (My husband keeps calling me a succulent thief.) :-/

Painted Pots DIY. Perfect burst of color for Spring. http://chasingayden.com/painted-pot-DIY

3. Enjoy!

I am super happy with how these turned out! I love the bright colors, and they make me smile, (that’s the point, right?) I hope you have fun making your Spring painted pots! (I used washi tape to accent the top of my ‘dipped’ pot. The possibilities are truly endless).

xo, Em

Thanks so much, Em! Don’t forget you can find Emily on her blog, shop, or IG

DIY Pyramid Place Cards on Wayfair

Passover begins tonight! If you are looking for an easy way to upgrade your table, I’ve got a modern twist on a DIY place card on the Wayfair blog (along with a printable so all you need is paper and glue or tape!)

DIY Pyramid Place Card for Passover

It’s also a great way to keep your kids occupied while you finish things up (or collapse with a glass of wine)

Happy Pesach! 

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